Vernon Goode first heard about Memory & Movement Charlotte from a business associate who knew Dr. Edwards. At the time, it felt like information he might someday need. Two years ago, when his wife Pam began showing memory changes, he knew who to call.

What Vernon values most about MMC is its singular focus. “I have friends who are physicians,” he says. “They’re scattered – they have too many patients, too little time, and no room for focus. MMC is different. You aren’t trying to be all things to all people. You’re dedicated to this specific challenge, and when you’re a caregiver, that focus means everything.”

As Pam’s care began, Vernon found MMC’s approach both thorough and grounding. Pam sees Dr. Aris Chaconas, whose blend of expertise, candor, and humor has been a steadying presence. “He makes a tense situation more comfortable,” Vernon says. “His laugh and his manner are engaging. He knows his stuff, he tells the truth, and he reminds us to keep rolling along and smile, skinned knees and all. Humor helps.”

Vernon’s caregiving journey has shaped the way he thinks about support - for Pam and for MMC. “This service is critical,” he says. “When you’re caring for a loved one with memory issues, you’re locked in. The only way to go is forward. I’ve recommended MMC to friends because I know how much it matters.”

And his giving flows directly from that belief. “I support MMC because what you offer is unique, valuable, and rare. And the number of people who need this care is only growing. I want to see this model grow.”

Learning to Ask for Help

Vernon assumed he knew what caregiving would require. “I thought I understood because Pam’s father and also her brother had dementia,” he says. “But being the primary caregiver is so much more stressful than I realized.I can't do this alone, and MMC helped me accept that before my own health suffered.”

Today, Vernon counsels other caregivers. “Take care of yourself first. This is a progressive condition, and you will need help at some point – it’s ok to ask friends, family, or hire professionals. Caregiving is a team sport. MMC has helped build my team.”